Perez Hilton's Family Allege Celebrity Friends Have Sent No Well-Wishes: 'No Flowers, Cards or Even a Text'

Perez Hilton's family has raised questions about the lack of support they say the celebrity blogger has received from some of his famous friends while he remains hospitalised following a serious mental health crisis.
Hilton, 48, has been receiving inpatient medical and mental health care since being hospitalised in Miami on 4 August. His family said in a recent update that his treatment is continuing under the supervision of medical and mental health professionals.
Now, his family has reportedly expressed disappointment that some people from Hilton's celebrity circle have not contacted him during what has been an exceptionally difficult period. According to the family, there have been 'no flowers, cards, or even a text' from some celebrity friends.
The comments come as Hilton's relatives continue to focus on his recovery and the well-being of his three children.
Perez Hilton Remains Hospitalised
Hilton, whose real name is Mario Armando Lavandeira Jr, was hospitalised after a serious mental health crisis at his Miami home. Authorities responded after concerned viewers contacted emergency services about a troubling livestream.
His family subsequently confirmed that he had suffered significant injuries and required medical treatment. His sister, Barbara Lavandeira, has since spoken publicly about the distressing experience and its impact on the family.
Hilton remains in hospital nearly two weeks after the incident. His family said on 17 August that his treatment was continuing in an inpatient setting and that his health remained their priority.
His mother has also filed for temporary custody of his three children, with the family saying the move was intended to protect them and give them stability while they recover from what they experienced.
Why Support Can Matter During a Mental Health Crisis
The family's comments about missing messages and gestures of support highlight a broader issue surrounding recovery from a mental health crisis: the importance of social connection.
The US Centres for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) says strong social connections can support both mental and physical health, while loneliness and social isolation are associated with conditions including depression, anxiety, and self-harm. About one in four US adults report that they do not have the social and emotional support they need.
Research has also found an association between stronger social support and a lower risk of suicidal thoughts. A systematic review and meta-analysis involving 692,266 participants found that people with high levels of social support had an approximately 18 per cent lower risk of suicidal ideation than those with low levels of support.
That does not mean a text message or a visit can replace professional treatment. Rather, supportive relationships can form part of the wider network surrounding someone during a period of severe psychological distress.
The Family Says Recovery Comes First
Despite the concerns about celebrity support, Hilton's family has continued to emphasise his recovery rather than his public profile.
His website is also expected to resume publishing under the direction of his team while he remains in treatment. The family said the decision would allow the site Hilton built more than two decades ago to continue operating while he concentrates on his health.
The situation also comes amid renewed discussion about Hilton's past and the public reaction to his crisis. His sister has pushed back against people describing the hospitalisation as 'karma', arguing that her brother has attempted to change and make amends for his past behaviour.
For now, Hilton remains under medical and mental health care, while his family asks for privacy and continues to support his recovery.
The episode is a reminder that a person's public profile does not necessarily reveal what they are experiencing privately. And while celebrity friendships may attract headlines, meaningful support during a mental health crisis can come from many places, including family, friends, and trained professionals.